How to attract an event. Everything that appears in your life we ourselves attract
If you feel and behave as if you are in love with the whole world, then everything around you will be in love with you ...
If you understood how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think negatively.
What are you thinking now? Look at what you are thinking about now, this will become your future. Think positive, love, success, luck, abundance and joy. And enjoy it in the future.
Remember, you attract what you believe in.
Feel today who you want to be tomorrow.
Your thoughts are your children. You must make each of them beautiful.Every thought should be a creative force directed towards good. Always remember that the power of thought is very great. Prepare to use it to help the world.
In your life there is only what is important to you. If something is not yet in your life, it is only because it is not important for you.
What we are today is the result of our yesterday's thoughts, and today's thoughts create tomorrow's life. Life is a creation of our mind.
We attract into our lives whatever we think about.
Follow your thoughts.
It is only thoughts that make a person unhappy or happy, not external circumstances. By controlling his thoughts, he controls his happiness.
In your life, what is more in your soul always prevails.
Just as we will not have a pleasant dwelling until we let fresh air and sunlight into our rooms, so our body will not be strong, and our face happy and clear, until our mind is open to good thoughts.
James Allen
How long do you think about good things?
That's how much good you will get.
There are no weak people.
We are all naturally strong.
Our thoughts make us weak.
Act as if failure is impossible and success is guaranteed. Drive away from yourself the thought that you will not achieve your goals, whether material or spiritual. Be bold and do not hold back the game of your imagination. Stop being a prisoner of your past. Be the architect of your future. You will never be the same again.
What you feel is what you radiate.
What you radiate is what you receive.
The voice in your mind is like a wild horse that carries you where it wants to go. Once you tame a horse, you can ride it, and then knowledge becomes a tool to take you where you want to go.
Miguel Ruiz
Your mind is what creates your heaven and your hell. It creates happiness, it creates suffering. Once you realize the power of your own mind, your life will begin to change. Be responsible for what you fill your mind with, that is what your life will be filled with.
As soon as we get rid of negative and harmful thoughts, the whole world will soften towards us and will be ready to help.
We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them.
Jubran Hamil Jubran
No one will heal the diseases of the body better than a cheerful thought; benevolence is an incomparable comforter, dispelling all traces of grief and sorrow.
James Allen
You can emphatically say: “This is a beautiful universe, it brings me only good. The universe is at one with me in everything. The universe supports me no matter what I do. The universe responds to my needs immediately.” Feel that the Universe is friendly to you.
Rhonda Byrne. Secret
Do you know about the Cosmic Law -
Richard Bach
LIFE, I LOVE YOU!
Your relationship with life is always a mirror
how do you feel about life
this is how life will treat you.
And why is it so?
Because you and her are One.
In reality, there are two magicians - nature and our desires.
Limitations exist only in our minds. But if we use our imagination, our possibilities become limitless.
Thoughts are the main source of your good mood. Clear your thoughts - and all adversity will go away.
Everything that happens to you is a change in your internal states. Try to understand that their manifestation depends entirely on how you set yourself up.
Joy and suffering depend on your mind, on your interpretation. They do not come from outside, from others. All happiness and all suffering are created by you, your own mind. lama sopa
When people say: “I am limited, I am suffering, I am unhappy”, they do it without any difficulty. However, no one says: “I am free! I am immortal!”... Whose fault is this? Whatever you say, whatever you think, it will happen. Tomorrow or now your wish will be fulfilled. And if you think, "I am free," then you are free.
You change yourself, the outside world changes with you - there are no other changes.
Everything you need is already inside you. I believe that people create their own heaven and their own hell. It's a personal choice... Karl Logan
Your thoughts always come back to you like a boomerang.
If you are constantly working on something with all your soul, then it will happen, because that is the function of the mind - to make things happen. Nisargadatta Maharaj
Your thoughts become your life.
Wherever you go, you will only find what you brought with you.
It doesn't matter what world you live in, what matters is what world lives in you, because the inner world will become the birth of the outer world.
Paradise is not a place. This state...
What you get from life is what you give to life.
If you believe, - there is; don't believe it, no...What you believe is what you are... Maksim Gorky
What you pay attention to will grow. If you pay attention to the fact that something is missing, then the lack of this will increase even more.
Speak mentally and aloud only those words that should become the seeds of what you sow.
1) Your imagination creates your reality;
2) All your thoughts are things;
H) What you think about grows and condenses;
4) You become what you think about;
5) Your thoughts or assumptions shape your world. Therefore, always keep your mind on what you want and do not think about what is undesirable for you;
6) You can change the world by transforming your thoughts;
7) If you cannot change the situation, you can change its effect on you by changing your attitude or assumption about it. And, in the end, you may be able to change this situation.
It's all about thoughts. Thought is the beginning of everything. And thoughts can be controlled. And therefore the main thing of perfection is to work on thoughts.Lev Nikolayevich Tolstoy
Everything we are is created by our thoughts.
The whole world inside a person is outside only his reflection.
With each thought, ask only one question: "Will this thought, if I follow it, make me noble or will it make me cruel? Will it make me stone, or will my fragrance be all over the world? Will it give me the strength make people happy or will it make others miserable?"
The world, like a mirror, reflects your attitude towards it. When you are unhappy with the world, it turns away. When you fight the world, it fights you. When you stop your battle, the world comes forward.
Cultivate in yourself an unshakable faith in your strengths and capabilities. By the power of your thoughts you determine your own destiny. Just as clouds are the main source of rain, controlling one's own thoughts is the source of steady prosperity. You yourself become your own friend or enemy. Swami Sivananda.
I will see - I will believe, - said the man.
"Believe me, you'll see," said the Universe...
The grain is invisible in the ground, and from it grows a huge tree. Thought is just as imperceptible, and the greatest events of human life grow out of thought.
What you carry in your mind is what you see in the world around you, then you attract to yourself.
We ourselves cause failure in our lives. What you fear will happen to you. Think positively, attract happiness.
Everything begins within you, and then everything external responds to you in return ...
Light is in man. And the surrounding world of a person is illuminated by his own, inner Light. The world around us is the way we make it. Man is a kind of lamp. His inner Light, his love and true goodness is the power that illuminates the world around him. And around each of us there is always exactly as much Light as we gave it away. The more you open up, the brighter it becomes around you.
Thoughts are material. Our consciousness is everything. You become what you think.If a person speaks or acts with evil thoughts, he is haunted by pain. If a person speaks or acts with pure intentions, happiness follows him, which, like a shadow, will never leave him. To live right, you need to fill the brain with the “right” thoughts. Right thinking will give you whatever you want; wrong thinking is an evil that will eventually destroy you.
We get out of life what we believe in. You believe that life is beautiful - and it is beautiful. You believe it's terrible - it's terrible. You believe that there is no way out, and you will not find a way out. If you believe that there is a way out, you will definitely see it. You are waiting for trouble - it will definitely come. You are afraid of getting sick - you will get sick. You believe in success - you will create it. You are waiting for happiness - it is already on its way to you! Our faith creates our reality.
You are where your thoughts are.
Make sure your thoughts are where you want to be.
Whatever you direct your attention to becomes more powerful in your life.
Everything that you deprive of your attention fades, collapses and disappears.
This is the tyranny of exhausted thinking. People who think in the same categories every day - mostly negative - are in the thrall of bad mental habits.
Instead of focusing on all the good things and thinking about how to make things even better, they became hostages of their past. Some worry about lost relationships or financial problems. Others suffer, remembering their far from perfect childhood. Still others sadly reflect on much more trivial things: about unfriendly notes in the voice of a salesman in a store or an employee at work. Those who think this way let worry destroy them. They themselves block the huge potentialities of their spirit, deprive it of its ability to work miracles and bring into their lives the possibility of the fulfillment of any desires. These people don't realize thatto control your mind means to control your life.
If you don't understand yourself well, you won't understand anything in this world. Because the world is you. Mikhail Veller
Only that which corresponds to your inner state is attracted to you and emanates from you.
Always expect the best - for you always get exactly what you expect.
Thoughts rule the world
Thought is energy, the power of which has no limits. Our universe was created by the thought of an entity that many call God. The same thought created a man who was given the power of the Creator - Thought.
Your thoughts are much stronger than you think, and every mental image is a real force that can affect your life.
Thought is energy, the power of which has no limits. Dreams always come true if a person believes in the power of his own thought. Thought + Faith = Intention. Intention is born by a thought that gives a command to the subconscious, which, in turn, begins to create the necessary conditions for the realization of thought in the physical world.
The time of the materialization of a thought depends on the speed of the thought that creates the intention. The speed of the intended person's thought depends on the amount of his personal power (Spirit) - the energy of the person's Soul. This energy is collected during a person's life through his chakras, food and air. If a person lives in harmony with the Universe, he speeds up the process of gaining energy. If a person lives inharmoniously, he loses energy.
Your world is just a reflection of yourself.Stop looking for flaws in the reflection.Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj
The universe is a projection of our own "I", our likeness, which is no more real than the reflection of our face in a mirror, but - like this reflection - has a certain form, which cannot be changed without changing ourselves. Aleister Crowley
Remember: you attract what you What do you believe and what do you think.
EVERY MOMENT IS CREATED BY YOUR THOUGHTS
You have a much more powerful ability to create and influence your life than you yourself realize. In fact, at any given moment, you are creating your life with the thoughts that you have chosen for yourself. Your thoughts and beliefs are not just internal perceptions and attitudes, but physical vibrations of energy, as real as the floor under your feet. They are the main life-creating forces that shape your being and determine what will happen in your future. Being only declared, your thoughts are the most important factor in your life, and the only one over which you have complete and comprehensive control. Yet most of us give our thoughts little, if any, attention.
All your complaints, all your problems are happening just because you think about it. They continue to manifest because your thoughts materialize, they become your reality. When you accept everything as it is, accept your identification with the physical form, your life situation can take a quantum leap. We always return to the same question. Who wants to know all this? Who says all this? Who is this storyteller? Who is the king of tragedy? Who is the questioner, who is the doubter? Look at it and it will disappear. Then all these tragedies, stories, fairy tales will disappear. You, as a person, will dissolve. Your sense of individuality, your sense of ego, will dissolve. And then you are happy. Caesar Teruel
The greatness of the world is always in accordance with the greatness of the spirit looking at it.
The good one finds his paradise here on Earth, the evil one already has his hell here.
Heinrich Heine
Lifestyle begins with a way of thinking. Everything else is tools.
What we see depends on how we look
By an effort of will, thought, it turns out, it is possible to influence the process of metabolism in a living organism, the treatment of wounds, and the growth of plants. And this parapsychological phenomenon has a name - telekinesis - "movement carried out at a distance." It can appear as a result of injuries, diseases, stress. But also these abilities can be developed in yourself. For example, it is recommended to try to "conjure" according to a certain scheme - up to the appearance of fatigue - with a glass saucer filled with water, in which a needle floats. It is believed that each such training is a step towards mastering telekinesis. By the way, there is the concept of "second wind", according to which a person at a certain moment seems to be exhausted, loses strength, but then suddenly switches to a reserve source of energy, manifested in parapsychological abilities.
In order for our life to become harmonious and beautiful, our ideas about it must be harmonious and beautiful, because everything that happens to us is rooted in the soul and from there grows outward.
If you are upset about something external, then it is not the thing itself that oppresses you, but your judgment about it. But to eliminate the latter is in your power. If something in your own mood upsets you, then who prevents you from correcting your way of thinking? Marcus Aurelius
Thoughts are the wings of the soul.Christian Nestel Bowie
Time paints the soul in the color of our thoughts. Marcus Aurelius.
Watch your thoughts - they become words.
Watch your words - they become actions.
Watch your actions - they become habits.
Watch your habits - they become character.
Watch your character - it determines your destiny.
What you managed to achieve in life, you attracted with your mind. Your efforts were preceded by a thought. The mental plan went ahead of your achievements. Orison Marden
In fact, we are surrounded by an atmosphere emitted by ourselves. Little do we realize to what extent we are psychically poisoned by the radiation of our own careless and impure thoughts. Dion Fortune
Man is a materialized thought; he is what he thinks. To change his nature from a mortal to an immortal state, he must change his way of thinking; he must stop clinging in his thoughts to that which is illusory and subject to disappearance, and to cling to that which is eternal. Paracelsus
The difference between success and failure depends on what you think about most of the time. Dean Francis
Of course, very often there is a desire to attract some thing (for example, to receive an iPhone as a gift!) Or a meeting with the right person, and the like. I myself am moderately indifferent to material things, so I have my own list, but I don’t worry at all if something is not available to me now. Therefore, despite the love for experiments on the realization of desires and testing of new techniques, she rarely trained on material things, although girls describe amazing cases of attraction on the forum.
At the same time - is it not because of low importance? - I almost always easily get what I need or want, ranging from serious things like laptops (somehow I got three laptops at the same time ... and all of them did not cost me a dime) or cars and ending with small things like " something I wanted pancakes "and on the same day I get pancakes, accidentally going to my mother, who accidentally decided to cook them today, which happens a couple of times a year.
Of course, this is a universal way to fulfill all desires, but it is with the material ones that it is easiest to implement, because there are much fewer emotions involved, which means that there is no importance:
it’s easy to wish yourself what you want, you can write it down by creating an ordinary intention, as if a material desire and not a desire at all, but simply a goal that will be achieved sooner or later, which means there’s nothing special to worry about in this regard.
It always works for me. Of course, sometimes a thing is delayed ... for a long time ... But, unlike many other desires, where feelings are involved, impatience and despair do not arise, and in the end the thing appears anyway, and sometimes, as if rewarding for waiting, in double or triple volume :)
As for the attraction of the meeting, the principle is exactly the same: wish it easily, creating an inner confidence in yourself that everything will work out that way. Visualize the desired event and easily release it to implementation.
Wish cards, lists of 10 or 25 wishes, and indeed, a wide variety of lists work very well for materialization. Events are perfectly pulled up by visualization, and if possible, you can put a suitable photo in a prominent place. So I put up a photo of myself swimming in the sea when I was desperate to go on vacation. After that, during the year I visited the sea 4 times, two of them - unexpectedly for myself, and once even completely free of charge.
This is my experience, but I know that for many materialization works much better than for me. Some reviews in the Book of Desires are worth something! And the forum is also full of examples, you can read them for inspiration:
1. Although there have been cases - for example, somehow I really wanted to get a little respite from work in the form of 2-3 days off. And I vividly imagined how glad and happy I am that I have this weekend. How I sleep and walk and do my business. Those. as if she was watching herself from the side. At the same time, I thanked the Universe for giving me such an opportunity. And it came to fruition right away. Fortunately, without any troubles like diseases.
2. And also about materialization in my life. This week, 2 times in a row it turned out that I came to work without breakfast, very hungry. For the first time, one girl unexpectedly brought a delicious cake. Today I already entered the office and thought to myself that I want to eat, which means that something will definitely turn up, do not starve until lunch. And it turned out that yesterday one of the guys ordered pizza, and she still had left! So I was provided with breakfast.
Well, of course, all this is not very useful for the figure, but you understand ... I did not mentally order a healthy dietary breakfast.
3. I want to tell you about my experience of fulfilling desires with the help of visualization:
1. Machine:
I didn't know about visualization and the law of attraction then. For several years, I imagined driving (to the smallest detail): how I press the pedals, add music, see the interior, and so on. Very clear and detailed presentation. And the following happened: I had no money for a car at all and I had no idea how to buy it, but I always knew for sure that I would have it. A friend invited me to a flea market to see the cars (she was going to buy), so I went with her just like that. And what do you think? She didn't buy the car, but I did! Moreover, its price was lower than the market price by 60 tr, ex. condition, the loan was given in 2 days, the remaining amount was found without problems. The loan is almost paid off, I drove it for 1.5 years, now I'm going to change it to a new one) I already know and can imagine what it will be like)
ps I always imagined an expensive executive class car, because you always need to imagine it to the maximum, because it usually comes true less.
2. Apartment:
I imagined a big house (I also took it to the maximum :) to the smallest detail, only for some reason the bathroom in it was small. Well, I could not imagine it differently for some reason.
Now I have an apartment, in a new house and already renovated for free :) Of course, this is not a house, but it is big, beautiful, just super. Moreover, this second wish came true for me much faster than the first, in just a few months. The main thing is to clearly imagine and be convinced that you ALREADY HAVE it.
3. Work:
My husband could not find a job for a long time, I imagined everything that was possible: how he got a job, and how he was informed that they were taking a job, etc. It didn’t work in any way .. then I just imagined how we were sitting with him in the dark corridor of my office and he was holding out money to me. Believe it or not, everything came true down to the smallest detail. He got a job and, sitting on a sofa in the corridor, handed me a salary)) that's how I "groped" what I need to imagine so that he gets a job) Yes, I forgot to write that the bathroom in the apartment is really small)) Do not turn around .
4. I have one friend from a very poor (not low-income, namely a poor family), her old house literally fell apart, she was given a new one, which soon burned down. she works as a librarian, the family is dysfunctional, well, in general, I will not describe, everything is clear. She always adored France and dreamed of going there. Entered foreign language naturally in French. language. Well, the question is, what's next? Still no money.
... Now she lives in France, works, gets well, is going to get married. I must say that she had a poster with the image of France hanging by her bed for several years! When she studied in foreign languages, there was a competition to go to work in France, the competition is terribly high, many did not pass, but she passed and went!
5. From now on, I believe in anything .... The other day I uploaded a photo of a white orchid to my wish book here. Can you guess three times what the men gave us at work today?
Plus, a week ago I thought that someone would give me Raffaello .... Today it was complete with flowers.
6. As for the car, it's generally funny. While I can’t afford a good car, Okushka has conceived it. And what? small, nimble, economical, comfortable and nimble. for the sake of the experiment. every day, going to work, I imagined that now she was standing outside the window and waiting for me. I felt joy and it really seemed to me that she was there. about a month later, my dad calls me at work and asks me to come to them. (I lived with my grandmother). I arrive, and they lead me to the garage and hand over the keys! I will never forget this moment. Lost speechless! Honest word. All in ribbons, bows, and balloons. Decorated by the bride. I was just insanely happy. And now, after a year, I was not nearly disappointed in my Okushka-girlfriend. where necessary, sat down there and went without problems.
This is only a small part of the positive examples, there are many more on the forum.
Action plan:
3. Write down the wish in the Wish Book. Make a wish map and lists
4. Keeping a Notebook for 100 days is also very effective (in a regular notebook or on a website)
5. As for the attraction of events... Visualize! And of course, mentally send love and gifts to those people with whom you are going to interact.
Every person has the ability to change their own life. Fate allows you to make adjustments. If you want to be a happy person, learn to attract only positive events to yourself.
On the way to achieving personal happiness, many people make critical mistakes, sometimes without even realizing that they have caused irreparable harm to themselves and scared away positive events. The laws of life and the creation of a favorable psychological climate will help you not to go astray.
Learning to build your life according to personal desires and requirements is not at all difficult. If successful opportunities turn up, any accomplishments will go uphill. Today you will learn to attract positive events to yourself, which means to decide your destiny in the way that pleases your heart.
This is the first and, perhaps, the most basic regularity of life: what we project into the world, like a magnet, we attract to ourselves. Many may object, pointing to the opposite opinion - "opposites attract". The truth is undoubtedly at the basis, but in general it is a mass delusion.
Let's take a look at relationships as an example. A modest man finds himself a liberated woman. And a cheerful girl seeks a relationship with a calm young man. All this happens at the energy level of our vibrations. We look for in people what we would like to see in ourselves, that is, the objects of our own thoughts are in the center of attention. And it has nothing to do with the opposite.
The more you think about your fears, what you don't want or fear in your life, the more you get it, and vice versa. Therefore, it is necessary to drive away fears, insecurities and obsessive thoughts. Think more about your aspirations, imagine how you achieve your goals and how happy you will be when you get what you want.
Pay attention to your thoughts
A reflection of the essence of each person are emotions that need to be listened to. The science of consciously creating your life is simplicity. The most important thing is the ability to weed out negative thoughts and focus your attention only on positive ones. Everything that we can imagine exists in the universe. Therefore, it is important to make any decision with a positive bias.
It is necessary to imagine in detail what you want from life. Bright and positive thoughts are creative energy, which, at the slightest negative, risks becoming destructive. Each person has a unique vision of the world, which means that he creates his own life with the help of feelings and emotions. The conscious expression of one's desires begins with the creation of an image in one's thoughts. The main thing is to see the dream, and the Universe will help to realize it by providing opportunities.
The Art of Approval
First, take a closer look at yourself and accept yourself with all the pluses and minuses of character and behavior. You are a person who, having noticed your own mistakes, can change them.
Second, let the people around you be who they want to be. Approve their choices, words, and decisions, even if you don't like it. Remember that this is their life, and only they are the creators of their own destiny. Each person must change himself on his own, without outside help. Get busy with your life, work on yourself and your thoughts, creating a positive space around.
Focus on the fact that in order to attract positive events in life, you need to radiate positivity. Don't expect quick victories: working on yourself takes more time than it might seem. Affirmations will help in the struggle for happiness, strengthening and nourishing your endeavors. We wish you happiness, good mood, success,and don't forget to press the buttons and
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Luck largely depends on our mood. If you start the morning right, then fortune will accompany ...
Ecology of consciousness. Psychology: How can we overcome something negative without resisting it? This question reveals one of those delusions that (sometimes for a lifetime) prevents us from getting what we want. We think that by resisting negativity, we will be freed from it. But it's not. In many cases, we get the freedom to create what we want only after we have stopped resisting.
How can we overcome something negative without resisting it? This question reveals one of those delusions that (sometimes for a lifetime) prevents us from getting what we want.
We think that by resisting negativity, we will be freed from it. But it's not. In many cases, we get the freedom to create what we want only after we have stopped resisting.
By resisting our desires, we only add fuel to the fire.
So we're only making the situation worse. If we resist something that is not desirable for us, then we fully focus on it.; we act on the assumption that external circumstances will prevent us from getting what we want.
Let's look at a few examples. If at work we are against communicating with certain people, it certainly turns out that we are forced to deal with them on business all the time.
The more we fight some habits of our children, the stronger they become. If we, fearing to get fat, resist the urge to eat dessert, we crave it even more.
When we don't want to pay bills, they just seem to flunk us. When we are in a hurry and are afraid to get into a "traffic jam" - you can be sure that we will spend at least half an hour in it.
Because of this resistance, a person denies his inner power to create or attract what he wants. Actively focusing on what we don't want weakens our ability to get what we want.
It's hard to be sure that you can make dreams come true if you think only about what you haven't achieved. It is not easy to experience a state of inner happiness, love and peace if you try to look for it outside.
This does not mean that a person should ignore everything that he does not want. But instead of resisting negativity, it can be used.
Negative emotions will help you feel what you want and focus on it. The ability to create your own future depends entirely on the attempts to do this and on the life position of a person.
Do not resist, but be aware and let go of negative emotions, and then attention will turn to what you want.
Resistance reinforces the belief that we cannot get what we want. We automatically begin to accumulate signs of our own impotence and eventually lose touch with our creative potential.
We create what we believe in. H The human mind is much more powerful than most people think. 90% of what happens in life is caused by our mental images, and only 10% - by actions.
A person who believes that he can have more, but cannot achieve what he wants, should take a closer look at his experiences.
And then he will certainly see that deep down he does not believe in his success. On the contrary, continuing to believe in the desired in the most hopeless situations, a person strengthens his faith and beliefs.
When you believe, challenges make you stronger and strengthen your faith.
We create what we believe in.
When a feeling of hopelessness takes precedence over a person's self-confidence, he begins to unnecessarily resist the world.
Instead of accepting what he has and working to get what he wants, he spends all his energy resisting the existing situation.
When we resist another person or situation, we give desire the wrong direction.
Instead of striving for calmness and cooperation, we want to get rid of something. Instead of trying to complete the project, we spend a huge amount of energy dodging work.
Instead of settling relations, we waste our mental strength in vain, hoping to change the behavior of partners. We focus on what we don't want and think back to times when we didn't get what we wanted.
Instead, we should focus on what we want and remember the times we got it.
We resist the behavior of partners, feeling that they do not like them. Instead of demonstrating our friendliness to colleagues, to interest them, we wait until they once again offend or disappoint us.
In any case, by resisting the situation, we waste energy and continue to get what we resist, not getting any closer to what we really want.
What we resist will stubbornly return.
You get what you focus on. Unwanted, fueled by your attention, only increases.
When you pay attention to something and experience strong negative emotions at the same time, you once again attract what you resist.
What you pay attention to grows in your life
When you resist something, you keep creating it because you believe that it is impossible to get rid of it. The feeling of hopelessness was the source of your resistance, and it will reappear if you believe that you cannot get what you want.
By resisting, you reinforce the belief that you cannot get what you want.
Imagine that you know: a check for a million dollars is due in the mail in your name. In this case, you would not resist paying any bills and would not be afraid to sign them.
You wouldn't want the bills to disappear. Assuming that you have enough money, you would not resist the need to spend it.
Imagine that your partner is sick, but you know for sure that he will recover soon. Will you, having such information, drop all your affairs and begin to personally care for him?
You are not afraid that he will feel abandoned, you do not resist the disease and do not consider that this is a heavy burden.
Your resistance fades because you are sure that you will get what you want. Your confidence that everything will be fine will keep you from falling into the trap of resistance.
With this understanding, it will become clear that in order to succeed, we need to give up the idea of resisting anything. The next step is gaining the confidence to get what you want. Nothing strengthens her like the first success.
Achieving success is like a snowball rolling down a mountain. The longer it rolls, the bigger it gets.
Likewise, achieving even a small amount of success strengthens your faith. Following him comes a new, more impressive luck.
It will give you even more confidence. Along with it, your next success will increase. Now you believe in yourself, filled with enthusiasm. You just radiate positive energy and confidence!
Once having gained speed, a person often continues to roll by inertia.
Once you understand this, you can understand why it is so important to define your desires every day. If you made a wish and it came true, you will feel a surge of strength from the knowledge that you are able to attract what you want into your life.
However, small miracles will never happen again if you stop feeling appreciation for them.
Nothing contributes to success like success.
To achieve personal success, we need to feel and act in accordance with our true desires. Unfortunately, most of our daily aspirations come from the very habit of resistance.
Such desires are not true. Instead of attracting what you really want into your life, false desires rob you of energy and reinforce the belief that you are powerless to get what you want.
By focusing on the unwanted, you reinforce your belief that you are unable to get what you want.
Let's say you're stuck in a traffic jam. If you are in a hurry, you want the car to move as fast as possible.
By resisting the traffic situation, you focus on what you don't want and thereby reinforce your inability to get what you want. Most likely, you will intuitively prefer the lane in which the cars move the slowest.
And even if you taxi to not the worst, you will think that it is the worst of all.
Why (for example, in a supermarket) is the last package of the desired product always taken from you in front of your nose?
Why, when you are in a hurry and worried, do you get in a line that barely moves? This is not an accident. There is clearly a pattern here.
In a hurry, being in an unbalanced state, you will choose the slowest queue.
If we are in a hurry, then in the supermarket we stand in line, which moves more slowly than all the others.
If you are not in alignment with your inner center, you will unconsciously (“intuitively”) choose the wrong path. By resisting circumstances, we only exacerbate the situation. By focusing on not wanting to wait, we will be forced to wait longer.
Why does the past repeat itself
The above is another reason why it is so important to heal old wounds.
If you have had painful experiences in the past(for example, in business or personal relationships), you will strive to avoid them again. Resisting suffering can bring it on again.
However, if you have not been offended before, you will not think much about the offense, but will naturally focus on what you want. That is what will be attracted into your life.
Resistance to painful experiences creates the possibility of re-experiencing them.
It is very difficult not to resist the bad things that happen. Once a disaster has happened, we naturally do not want it to happen again.
But by focusing on this unwillingness, we re-attract suffering to a certain extent. The more fully we have healed our past, the less we will be disturbed by the shadows of the past.
Until we get rid of the pain associated with past events, some of their negative aspects will repeat and annoy us.
For example, if we passionately do not want to be alone, that is what we will get. If we don't want to be rejected and ignored, that's exactly what will happen.
If we are horrified by the possibility of losing something, it will be lost. If we are oppressed by the thought of an unloved job, it will remain a source of trouble.
If we simply cannot work with a certain person, we will have to deal with him all the time.
The more we do not want something, the more it is attracted to our lives.
By learning to heal past wounds, we allow the old pain to go away, and with it, the subconscious expectation of its repetition.
From now on, we will be free to focus more on what we want. Our positive desires will increase to the extent that we have been able to get rid of past grievances.
If you do not let go of your past, it will appear to you again and again. By resisting negative experiences, you will automatically attract situations that will cause unpleasant emotions.
Resistance not only prevents you from attracting what you really want, but also dissipates power. It's like a hole in your love tank that won't fill up.
Your energy, instead of being consciously used for constructive purposes, flows out of it.
As an experiment, try noting all the negative thoughts and bad feelings you verbalize throughout the day.
You will be amazed at how often this happens. But the “voiced” resistance is just the tip of the iceberg.
Negative statements reflect the true essence of resistance. Our true task is to heal the spiritual experiences and sensations caused by it. Start by being aware of what you have said.
Be careful with words. As you gain confidence in building your life, you will see that what you say comes true.
The power of your words is limitless. Especially if you express your true desires.
The resistance game
The resistance game can be fun. We sometimes play it with my twelve year old daughter Lauren. One day we go shopping together and just note all the negative statements of each other.
Then we try to speak differently. Here are some examples of our statements:
I said, "Maybe there isn't a good parking spot here, let's look somewhere else." I should have said, "Let's see if there's a good parking spot nearby."
We then drove to where we wanted to park and found a parking spot.
She said, “I hope we don't have to wait long; I have so much homework." Then she corrected herself: “I hope we get through this quickly. I want to have enough time to do my homework.”
When it was time to leave the store, I said, "Your mom won't like it if we're late." Together we redid this phrase: "If we get home quickly, mom will be very happy."
Near the house in the car, I said: "Don't forget to take the bag." In a positive version, it sounded: “We will now make sure that everyone has taken it.”
Stop resisting your partner
The same principles apply to interpersonal relationships. Don't focus on your partner's actions and emotions that seem negative to you.
Focus on the behavior and reactions of the person that you like. For example, on wanting to hear from him what a wonderful person you are.
Think of times when your partner gave you high marks. Feel like this: "I want him to love me and think I'm great."
Instead of thinking, "He never helps me with anything." Remember how he once helped you, revive your feelings at that moment in your memory. Then express your desire to experience those emotions again and think, "I want my partner to help me."
If we shift the emphasis in this way, ninety percent of the problems will find their solution. By identifying your positive desires, you awaken an inner belief in the possibility of obtaining what you want.
When your faith is strong, the desired will begin to happen.
If you make wishes with an affirmative accent, then you contribute to their implementation.
When communicating with people, try to address them in an affirmative way and avoid expressing dissatisfaction, criticizing and demanding.
Try to get rid of expressions such as "no", "you must not", "you must", "you never...", "you always...", "why don't you...".
Try - at least as a game - to find a more positive way to express your desires.
Instead of "We never go anywhere," say, "Let's do something different this weekend." Instead of saying “You forgot to take out the trash again”, speak differently: “When was the last time you took out the trash? The bucket was full, so I carried it out myself.”
If you are asking for more, don't verbally condemn, don't shame, don't blame. Everything will work out if you use a light tone: as if at the table, ask your partner to serve a butter dish.
There is no need to doubt that he will hear you.
If you turn to your partner, believing that he is deaf, then he will not hear you.
If you resist some actions or moods, then at the moment when your partner is in a good mood, briefly and friendly ask him for what you want, and then patiently insist on it.
On occasion, ask again, but each time as if you were doing it for the first time. After several requests, the partner will realize that he did not give you what you wanted; at the same time, he will be grateful that you do not shake his nerves.
This will be of interest to you:
The latter circumstance will allow him to overcome his own negative emotions regarding you. Not only will he not reject you, but he will gain an additional incentive to do something else for you.
The same approach applies to all areas of relationships: in the office, at school, and at home.
The power of memory
The memory of good things strengthens your confidence in the same way that negative experiences increase resistance to life. If I really want something to happen, then I remember the happy events of the past. published
A powerful method for attracting pleasant events into your life! This is a very powerful method for attracting many pleasant events into your life. “By living with a gratitude mindset, we can make a big difference in the world. When we forget about gratitude, we very easily deviate from our goal, ”says Joe Vitale.
When you are successful, rich, happy and healthy, you can thank fate for all this, but what if your life is full of problems? What is there to be thankful for when everything seems awful?
A powerful method for attracting pleasant events into your life:
If you think about it, there is still a reason for gratitude.
Try to find joy in the simplest things:
I am grateful to be alive.
I have relatives and friends (beloved person, children - continue this list yourself ...).
I have friends (at least one close friend or girlfriend for sure!).
I enjoy meeting interesting people. (Again - if they are not yet on the horizon, look for them, and they will be found).
I have a roof over my head (it doesn't matter if it's my own or rented, a big house or a modest odnushka).
I have a computer with Internet access (and it is, if you are reading these lines).
I have a desire for success and prosperity (or maybe you are already successful and rich! But even if you are just on your way to this, that's great too!).
I have a favorite job (if it doesn’t exist yet, then there is at least a job that feeds you, and also, you probably have a hobby for the soul).
I know how to enjoy the sun, the singing of birds and the smiles of passers-by.
I thank fate and God for every day I live, because it brings me so many discoveries!
If you get into the habit of keeping a gratitude journal, you will find more and more joy in your life every day.