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The distribution of the family budget ... Or how to make the husband give his entire salary ...

How can I get my husband to pay his entire salary? I know that a huge number of women are puzzled by this question ... Sorry, but why do you need her? This salary? For some reason, since Soviet times, in many families it has been considered the norm for a man to give all his money to his wife.

And it is not perceived normally that a man does not give his wife the entire salary ... To each his own, but I don’t need this money.

Conspiracy to give the husband money

The plot given below will make the husband more responsible. Receiving money, he will strive home giving all the money to his wife. Take his shirt. Embroider on the wrong side of the sleeve a few stitches with threads in the color of the shirt.

Try not to make your stitches visible.

While sewing, say the words of the conspiracy. So, a conspiracy so that the husband gives money to his wife.

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The prayer for her husband to Nicholas the Wonderworker is strong “Save, Lord!”. Thank you for visiting our site, before you start studying the information, please subscribe to our Vkontakte group Prayers for every day and the telegram channel Prayers for every day. "God bless you!". There can be many reasons.

Maybe a man does not fulfill his main duty - to provide for his family? Maybe things are going badly for him?

In this case, a strong prayer for your husband to Nicholas the Wonderworker can help you out.

A conspiracy for a husband to give money to his wife

In order for the husband to give all the money to his wife, you will have to read a strong magical plot over him. You will spend no more than 5 minutes, but you will gain full power.

And yet, as often happens. The spouse begins to secretly save money, supposedly for a fur coat, and then - no money, no husband. Everything should happen under your personal control.

Now the husband will reconsider his decision.

A conspiracy so that the husband gives money to his wife In order for the husband to give all the money to his wife, you will have to read a strong magical conspiracy over him.

You will spend no more than 5 minutes, but you will gain full power.

And yet, as often happens. The spouse begins to secretly save money, supposedly for a fur coat, and then - no money, no husband.

Everything should happen under your personal control. Now the husband will reconsider his decision.

A thousand love spells

From a letter: “... I have been dating for five years, I don’t know if it’s love or not, but the habit is already quite strong. It suits him, and me too, that we live separately. I have kids and he doesn't seem to like kids at all.

I don't want such a family. So we meet three times a week. It's just a shame that from her children she has to feed and drink him.

For five years he has not brought a dry peel into the house.

A conspiracy for the husband to bring money to the family

Most often this happens if the husband is passionate about some hobby that the wife does not take seriously.

Then he will spend money on his hobby even before he returns home after work - for example, if he collects something, he will simply step over the threshold of the apartment with the next copy of his collection. If the family is large, then obviously no one will approve.

A conspiracy for the husband to give money.

The plot given below will make the husband more responsible. Receiving money, he will strive home giving all the money to his wife.

Take his shirt. Embroider on the wrong side of the sleeve a few stitches with threads in the color of the shirt. Try not to make your stitches visible. While sewing, say the words of the conspiracy.

So, a conspiracy so that the husband gives money to his wife.

“Joachim and Anna, you lived holy, your house

For a husband to bring money

“I burn clothes, a flame burns, drives away temptations from the servant of God (husband’s name). All the money for the house, not a penny for the yard. Let him bring wealth, carry his wife in his arms.

He does not spend money right and left, but gives only to me, the servant of God (name). My word is strong. Amen."

Excuse me, but why do you need it? This salary? For some reason, since Soviet times, in many families it has been considered the norm for a man to give all his money to his wife. And it is not perceived normally that a man does not give his wife the entire salary ... To each his own, but I don’t need this money. Money is power, and power is responsibility! And who in the family has the power and responsibility? The one who is the man in the family. It is convenient and pleasant for me that all the money that my man earns remains with him. He manages the money, and he solves all my problems.

At the same time, everything suits everyone: he feels like a man, and with him I am a weak, defenseless woman.

Aerobatics is not money as such, but caring for a woman, solving all her problems and satisfying her needs. This is when a man has money, and he spends all of them (well, or most of them) on a woman, in a family.

When a woman takes all his money from a man, it is very humiliating for him. And then he should ask them back for his needs? This is already unnatural. It’s one thing when he gives a woman something for something, and another thing when a woman rakes everything clean out of a man’s pockets, and then also whines that he doesn’t give her gifts ... A man experiences tremendous pleasure from what he gives to a woman every time money (and how many times he gives, so many times he rejoices). Therefore, please do not deprive your man of this pleasure.

In addition, a man (an adequate, pronounced male) earns money, and he needs to feel it (either in his pocket or on his bank account), he works for them and the tangibility of money stimulates him to earn more. Money is energy, it is power. And let her stay with the man!

At the same time, many men are economical and greedy by nature, and here the woman’s task is to make sure that the money goes to the destination she needs. How to do it?

Firstly, ask. Politely and internally tuned in to the fact that you will receive them. How else? How can you possibly refuse? If you do not know how (have forgotten how to) ask, learn this from children. It is necessary to ask with childish spontaneity. It is difficult for a child to refuse, because he will be very disappointed and upset. If a man loves you, he will not refuse. And if you do not like - why do you need such a man?

Another thing is when he does not have this money ... In this case, it is the woman's task to stimulate him, to earn them.

Secondly stop pitying him. Pity kills the man in him. Then he himself will be glad that he got off the sofa and brought mammoths. And don't rely on arguments like:

- No job…

I don't get paid enough...

- I'm tired…

We can't afford it...

-You want too much…

Yes, you deserve a lot. If you believe in it, then he will believe it.

In reality, any man can ALWAYS earn at least three times what he now has, and if he stops being afraid, drifting and being lazy (by the way, as a rule, any laziness is based on the fear of failure and failure).

That is, you need to make it clear to your man what you expect from him and how much you see potential in him. Often, a woman's faith works wonders, even if a man does not believe in himself. At the same time, you can’t cut and you can’t demand. Only ask.

Yes, you can turn on the competition and make it clear that if HE does not buy, then SOMEONE ELSE will buy. With this point, be careful not to everyone can be applied, and not in all situations it rolls. Here you need to be very confident in yourself and not at all be afraid to let go of a person, since he can send you)

Thirdly learn to appreciate what you have. What he has given you is giving and will continue to give. Gratitude is never enough, it’s more dangerous to underestimate here)

Fourth, learn to value yourself, this should have been put as the first point))

And really understand what you are about ite. How many st about so much and get)

PS: Remember! If a man does not spend his money on you, he will definitely spend it on himself (in the form of a new toy, another woman, etc.)!

The most detailed description: a prayer for the husband to bring money into the house - for our readers and subscribers.

In some families, the husband's pay day is a holiday and stress at the same time. The wife does not know when the missus will come and how much money he will bring. Many husbands do not give or give small sums to their wives for housekeeping. The rest of the money, unfortunately, can easily be spent on drink and walk away with friends. The other husband, on the contrary, gives money to his wife, and then he can spend the last with his friends. It is useless to quarrel with a spender who believes that he is the head of the family and the breadwinner, and the wife should be content with what her husband gave.

The plot given below will make the husband more responsible. Receiving money, he will strive home giving all the money to his wife. Take his shirt. Embroider on the wrong side of the sleeve a few stitches with threads in the color of the shirt. Try not to make your stitches visible. While sewing, say the words of the conspiracy.

So, a conspiracy so that the husband gives money to his wife.

“Joachim and Anna, you lived holy, your house

They built, they gave birth to children. I sew on you

I hope that I welcome my husband (name) to the house, his hands to the cause

I sew. Let the foolishness from the head of the servant of God (name)

It will come out, let it not bring good from the house,

Let him not give out his strength in vain,

Let his wife (name) welcome more than friends,

Let the earned good bring home.

May it be so. Amen".

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A conspiracy for a husband to give money to his wife

In order for the husband to give all the money to his wife, you will have to read a strong magical plot over him. You will spend no more than 5 minutes, but you will gain full power.

And yet, as often happens.

The spouse begins to secretly save money, supposedly for a fur coat, and then - no money, no husband.

Everything should happen under your personal control.

Now the husband will reconsider his decision.

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When the faithful fall asleep, stand at his head.

In your hands, squeeze a sheet with magical conspiracies.

Mentally imagine marital fidelity and the absence of greed in money.

Proceed to repeated and confident whispering of serious occult formulations.

So that you no longer save money, do not walk with friends and do not drink. He gave all his pay to the penny, he didn’t even hide a ruble from his family. May it be so. Amen! Amen! Amen!

So that you don’t argue with your wife and don’t lie, you don’t hide your income, as before. Chur you can’t hide a lot of money, you’ll start talking honestly about your salary. May it be so. Amen! Amen! Amen!

I withdraw money from the stash with a whirlwind, I close your cunning with bolts. From these ports, you are only in my power, let the demonic misfortunes go away. May it be so. Amen! Amen! Amen!

Repeat each magical plot at least thirteen times.

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For a husband to bring money

If you want all the savings of your family to be in your hands and you dispose of them, then a conspiracy will help you. It is aimed at the husband bringing as much money into the house as possible, not leaving it somewhere else. For example, did not go out with friends or did not spend on other unnecessary things. So, you need to take any husband's T-shirt, preferably, of course, the old one, in which he walked for a long time. Burn it and while it burns, read these words:

“I burn clothes, a flame burns, drives away temptations from the servant of God (husband's name). All the money for the house, not a penny for the yard. Let him bring wealth, carry his wife in his arms. He does not spend money right and left, but gives only to me, the servant of God (name). My word is strong. Amen."

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No less common is magic to attract wealth through manipulation and conspiracies on the wallet that you use in everyday life. After all, you go with him constantly to shops, markets, cafes, even restaurants, and from this he is also quite capable of attracting money. By the way, money is a theme of magic that is close to every person. There is never a lot of money and you always want to turn to magic in such a way as to get the most sustainable benefit from it.

A conspiracy to attract good luck for money using a coin

If you have a difficult situation with money and you don’t know how to be and where to get it, then use the conspiracy to attract good luck for money. After all, this is not at all a complicated but effective way to live in abundance. Even when you work and you have enough salary to live, but you want to make a big purchase, and for it you need even more money. Everyone can use the conspiracy, and if you did everything right, then you will immediately notice that the money goes into your hands.

For this conspiracy for money, you need a yellow coin, always carry it with you in your pocket for 5 days, and after each opening of the wallet, when you take out the money from there and give it back, hold the coin in your hand (so that no one sees and understands that you do) and mentally say the following words:

“We give money in another place, we take more and in the century of centuries, and nothing else Amen!”

And when you open it in order to put money in your wallet, then again hold the coin in your palm (so that no one sees or understands what you are doing) and mentally read these conspiracy words:

“Here the money has returned home, the wallet will grow, it will replenish me (name) with wealth, Amen!”

And so you must do all 5 days and every time you open your wallet. And in no case during these five days do not open your wallet just for the sake of it or to count the remaining money. And if you suddenly really need to count, then open the count and then at least 10 rubles or put it there or give it away and do not forget to read the necessary words on a coin.

After five days, the coin will be sufficiently charmed, it will become your good luck charm to attract money. Carry it with you in your wallet, do not lose it and do not show it to anyone, and do not give it away, otherwise luck for money will go away with it.

Attract money so that the whole family has money

Well, this conspiracy to attract money will help not only you but also your entire family, that is, the people closest to you who live with you under the same roof. Maybe you want your children living nearby not to be wasteful in money and always have money with them, and at the same time they don’t ask you for it. So that the husband began to bring more money home. This conspiracy is one of the ways to attract money to the whole family, so that the family does not drag it from home, but rather brings it to the house.

You will need an equal number of candles and white coins as many as you have family members, also prepare dry green basil (you can buy dried pure basil seasoning in the store), candles need to be rolled in basil and put on coins. This conspiracy must be done on the street in the yard, on the waning moon - this will be the best time to attract money, at night.

“The moon is waning with money, it fills our house, the candles shine with a flame on silver and open the way to wealth, wealth rolls into our house to husbands and sons, to mothers and daughters, and in the century of centuries rich we will be paper money rustling and nothing else. The key is the word lock Amen!”

After reading the conspiracy to attract money, bury the candles in the yard and hide the pennies at home so that no one from the household finds them.

How to read a plot to attract money

You can also use a plot to attract money near a river with a fast current. Such a conspiracy is very simple and does not require any additional attribute, except for a river with a course, any coin and knowledge of the necessary conspiracy words. And it is also effective, but to a greater extent this conspiracy does not bring a lot of extra money, maybe someone will give you a gift, or they will give you a bonus, or maybe you just get some kind of win, in general, just random money is provided to you.

You can stand on the bridge, or you can also near the river, look at the current and say such conspiracy words by throwing a coin into the river:

“Streams flow into rivers, rivers into the seas, and the seas gather into the oceans, so let my coin float to other coins and they all gather in big money and return to me as a slave (your name). Key and lock to my words, Amen!”

Prayer to attract money

Orthodox Christians, ordinary people face financial problems even while living a righteous life. Money will not make a person happy, but it is a tool that ensures the well-being of all spheres of existence.

More than one prayer for money has been developed, but most really work when they are said from a pure heart. To solve problems with money, you need to ask the saints for help, for example, turn to John the Merciful, the Mother of God.

Interesting information on resolving the issue will be prompted by Wang, the works of Natalia Pravdina.

The most significant figure among the saints, who always help when money is urgently needed, is Spyridon Trimifuntsky. This righteous man is able to give good luck, he will never refuse to help the suffering. Prayer for wealth will help the poor, the needy, the Orthodox faith always helps those who ask for help. Feel free to seek help from John the Merciful, the Mother of God, be interested in the works of Natalia Pravdina, Vanga. Prayer to attract money will always help, believers will gain good luck, achieve the help of heavenly forces, they will always have money sufficient for necessary needs.

When reading a prayer, follow the rules

If you want to get the help of the Mother of God, so that she can help you, give you good luck, make money in the family, you must always follow the rules. They read a prayer for big money at home, in a church, a temple, but in the latter case, the effect will be much stronger, especially opposite the icon. It is believed that baptized people can read Orthodox prayers, unbaptized people need to start with the rite of baptism. In order to have money, a prayer cannot be read from a piece of paper, it is much better to learn it by heart, they read words often, therefore it is much better when they remember it by heart.

In order to urgently attract good luck, it is recommended to focus as much as possible on reading the words of the prayer themselves. Moreover, it is not so much the words themselves that are important, but the images you represent, thoughts. The better you can imagine the goal for which you need money, the more successful you can expect. In order to urgently achieve your goal, check out the works that Vanga left behind. A strong prayer for big money appeals to almost any saint, however, the main thing is to believe in its power. Otherwise, you will not get the result.

The result of prayer will be the solution of money problems

To make money, make an effort, otherwise you won’t get help, because luck must be earned. It is not for nothing that Scripture says that one must earn one's bread by the sweat of one's brow. If you intend to wait for the help of higher powers without lifting a finger to earn money, they will not fall from the sky.

Sitting at home without taking any action is unlikely to get rich, and no prayer for big money will help.

Even turning to the Mother of God, understand that the heavenly forces help only those who really want to change something in life. Always act yourself, wanting to urgently fulfill the goal, and you will gain wealth, good luck.

Types of prayers to saints

There is far from one prayer for money, in most of them they differ only in the text and in which saint the words are addressed. The most powerful are the prayers addressed to the Mother of God, Nikolai Ugodnik, Spiridon of Trimifuntsky. You just need to choose which of them to turn the words of prayer so that funds and good luck are found.

Complete collection and description: a prayer conspiracy so that the husband gives his salary for the spiritual life of a believer.

In some families, the husband's pay day is a holiday and stress at the same time. The wife does not know when the missus will come and how much money he will bring. Many husbands do not give or give small sums to their wives for housekeeping. The rest of the money, unfortunately, can easily be spent on drink and walk away with friends. The other husband, on the contrary, gives money to his wife, and then he can spend the last with his friends. It is useless to quarrel with a spender who believes that he is the head of the family and the breadwinner, and the wife should be content with what her husband gave.

The plot given below will make the husband more responsible. Receiving money, he will strive home giving all the money to his wife. Take his shirt. Embroider on the wrong side of the sleeve a few stitches with threads in the color of the shirt. Try not to make your stitches visible. While sewing, say the words of the conspiracy.

So, a conspiracy so that the husband gives money to his wife.

“Joachim and Anna, you lived holy, your house

They built, they gave birth to children. I sew on you

I hope that I welcome my husband (name) to the house, his hands to the cause

I sew. Let the foolishness from the head of the servant of God (name)

It will come out, let it not bring good from the house,

Let him not give out his strength in vain,

Let his wife (name) welcome more than friends,

Let the earned good bring home.

May it be so. Amen".

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A conspiracy for a husband to give money to his wife

In order for the husband to give all the money to his wife, you will have to read a strong magical plot over him. You will spend no more than 5 minutes, but you will gain full power.

And yet, as often happens.

The spouse begins to secretly save money, supposedly for a fur coat, and then - no money, no husband.

Everything should happen under your personal control.

Now the husband will reconsider his decision.

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In your hands, squeeze a sheet with magical conspiracies.

Mentally imagine marital fidelity and the absence of greed in money.

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So that you no longer save money, do not walk with friends and do not drink. He gave all his pay to the penny, he didn’t even hide a ruble from his family. May it be so. Amen! Amen! Amen!

So that you don’t argue with your wife and don’t lie, you don’t hide your income, as before. Chur you can’t hide a lot of money, you’ll start talking honestly about your salary. May it be so. Amen! Amen! Amen!

I withdraw money from the stash with a whirlwind, I close your cunning with bolts. From these ports, you are only in my power, let the demonic misfortunes go away. May it be so. Amen! Amen! Amen!

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A conspiracy to pay a salary is valid in any situation!

If, after numerous requests and appeals to the boss who does not pay the salary, the understanding comes that he is not going to do this, then you need to make a conspiracy (so that the salary is given).

In order to make a conspiracy to return wages, you need to buy one thin wax candle. You do not need to take change when you buy it. By the way, it is recommended to purchase it in the church: it will be more effective. When the sun begins to set, the candle must be lit, while holding it in the left hand. After the candle has lit, it is necessary to whisper a conspiracy to the flame (thirteen or twenty-six times). The spell should be like this: “You (say the name of the debtor) are melting, because you don’t return debts, if you don’t return, you will melt forever. You (name) return the debt as soon as possible, and do not hide anymore! May this be my tried word! He sealed everything (a) with fire, not during the day, but in the evening (give your full name).

The next day, after lunch, you need to go to church and put a charmed cinder for the health of the one who must pay the salary, while reading these words: “You are forgiven by me for today, tomorrow and forever. God is my witness. And now and from now on, God is your (name of the debtor) judge. I myself (a) do not judge, I only ask for help, baptized (th), prayer (th), God (th). Amen".

There is also a rite with a conspiracy so that a person himself wants to repay the debt, because it often happens that it is impossible to knock out your own salary from the boss. There are different conspiracies for salaries, but one of the best rituals is during the period when the moon is growing. After sunset, you need to take a green wax candle, grease it with a thin layer of honey, light it and put it in the center of the table. Then warm your palms over her flame, while repeating the following words seven times: “How sweet sugar is, how sticky honey is, that my money stuck to my hands and did not come off.”

After the spell is read, you need to write on a white blank sheet of paper the amount that the boss owes, and write the text below: “Mine - come back to me, do not hide and do not linger anywhere.” Then, from the flame of a candle, you should set fire to this sheet with a note and put it on a small saucer. While it burns, it is necessary to repeat aloud a strong spell for the money to return: “Let mine return by right, by honor and conscience. The hand that gives will be blessed, but it will not become scarce! May it be as I say! “. After the ceremony is completed, the ashes should be scattered in the wind, and the candle should be extinguished and removed until the right moment.

If the ceremony for the return of salaries is carried out without any errors, then it is possible to achieve not only that the salary will be paid, but also the debt on it (if any). By the way, the consequences of a good result can also be profit, which will be equal to the amount that the boss did not give. But the main thing is to do everything in stages and correctly, adhering to the accuracy of the ritual and conspiracy. Words must be read without changing. In order not to forget them, you can write them on a separate sheet and store them in a place that is impossible to forget about, so as not to lose the spell.

Another nuance is that you need to call in spells not just your full name, but the one under which the person was baptized in the church. Sometimes the names don't match. For example - Maryana: the girl is christened with the name Mariamne. Therefore, it is recommended to find out the Christian name of the debtor before conspiracy.

In conclusion, it can be noted that the rites described above can be used not only for conspiracies to return salaries, but also simply if a person has taken a certain amount of money and does not return it.

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Salary conspiracy - everything will rise!

A conspiracy to increase wages is a magical rite that does not affect the person who performs it, but the environment and other people surrounding the employee. Such a ritual does not only increase income, but also resolves possible conflicts with superiors.

Features of the ritual

The rite to raise wages, like any other conspiracy, has its own characteristics.

Having studied the rules for performing the ritual and correctly conducting it, it will turn out to be effective and efficient, bringing the desired results in the very near future:

1. both men and women can read the conspiracy, regardless of their position and salary level;
2. the most effective rituals are obtained during the growing moon or on the full moon. It is not recommended to read a plot for a waning month, as it may have the opposite effect;
3. it is not advisable to conduct a ceremony to raise wages on church holidays, Sundays, or on days when a person feels unwell;
4. money conspiracies are the strongest if carried out on Thursday or Saturday.

Having studied these simple rules, you can make the conspiracy effective, and get the result in the shortest possible time.

It is believed that the ceremony begins to work immediately after completion, and the first results can be seen in a month and a half.

Ritual in several stages

This rite is considered very effective, and it must be carried out in several stages.

The first stage is the cleanup of the workplace. If possible, the working room is fumigated with calendula and mint grass. If this is not possible, then a rag bag with herbs should be left in one of the drawers of the table or in another secret place for a week.

The second stage is a conspiracy. A conspiracy is read on the full moon:

“Flowers all bloom on the full moon, they obey the round moon,

And I, the servant of God (name), ask the moon for clear light, complete consent.

So that my salary is round, like you are now,

And with your growth it increased,

And as you decrease, so it will stabilize.

The light is long, the month is full, my purse is golden.

My chief boss will listen to the moon and solve my affairs.

The plot is repeated three times, and after reading it, you should go to bed.

The third stage is the morning ritual at work. In the morning after reading the magic words, you need to come to work first, open the window and say the plot:

The plot is repeated three times, after which you can proceed to your ordinary duties. The rite of passage for a salary increase begins immediately, and the first results can be enjoyed in a few weeks.

Ritual for a coin

When a talented and diligent employee does everything to be noticed and encouraged, but the boss does not do this, magic comes to the rescue. A special conspiracy for a coin will help to ensure that the employee's salary is increased. To complete it, you need a coin of any denomination of yellow color.

Magic words are read on it:

“As in the blue sea, the mighty ocean, fish are found and not translated,

As in the blue sky, the huge sky, the stars shine, do not count them,

As in a spacious field, a wide field of grass is earing, not to interrupt everything,

So I, the servant of God (name), always had money.

My words are strong, like a mighty stone Alatyr,

I seal them with an iron sword in mother earth.

Let my boss increase my salary

He will add money, he will see my talents.

To always be like this.

The words are read three times, after which the coin should be placed in the workplace to your right. The coin should lie there for three days. When three days have passed, you need to buy something with it. Only it is not bought for oneself, but for someone else. For example, a purchased candy that is given to a child is suitable. On this, the ceremony is considered completed. You can expect results within a month.

You can make it so that wages are raised with the help of magical influence. A special ceremony will help the boss to notice the talents of his subordinate and, accordingly, encourage him financially.

A simple spell to attract money

This conspiracy is done within three days. To conduct it, you will need to buy three simple candles of any size and color in the church. The plot is done in the morning. Light one candle and repeat the following words seven times:

“As one girl went for water, she left and did not return, and then money began to come for her, and they paid for her and paid, but they didn’t pay everything, and left for my lifetime. Give the servant of God (your name) such strength that money would strive for me, but they would not pass me by. Amen".

As you make a conspiracy for three days, money will be attracted to you and begin. This conspiracy is popularly called the "plot on Martha the drowned woman."

Conspiracy for quick money

For a conspiracy, you need to buy one of the largest church candles. At home, put a candle on a ten-ruble coin, light it and say the plot three times:

“As the holy fire on this money burns out, so I will begin to get richer, and grow in money. Amen, amen, amen."

After the candle burns out completely, remove the wax from the coin and put it in your wallet, it will immediately begin to attract money.

Conspiracy for wealth

Buy three long candles (church), twist them together. After midnight, light the candles (so that they all burn together) and say the following thirty-three times:

“Triple fire burn need and poverty. As the candles burn out, so will wealth go to me.

Then let the candles burn out completely, and throw everything that remains of them into the toilet. There is no need to repeat the conspiracy, usually it begins to act exactly after thirty-three days.

Prayer to attract money

“As Jesus lived honestly, so did he rightly. And if it’s right, then let my life be honest, but secure. Let my path be easy, but strewn with money. And I will follow the path of good, secure and happy. Amen".

Repeat the prayer three times.

Prayer for wealth

This prayer helps to get rich. You need to pray daily, in the morning, until you realize that you already have enough money. The prayer is said in a whisper so that no one can hear it. You can also pray to yourself. Prayer text:

“Holy angels, I am coming to you with a request. Just like that monk who went from church to church and received no answer anywhere, so I go through life, but I will not rejoice anywhere. Have mercy on me, a servant of God (your name), help me become rich, and live this life in luxury. Yes, let me never again know poverty and grief. With a request to you and in respect. Amen".

The prayer is said three times.

Income Growth Conspiracy

For this plot, you need to take three coins of the smallest denomination - a penny. Put the pennies in the palm of your left hand and whisper to them:

“Let a penny reach for a penny, and a big denyuka will hurry after them, but everyone comes to visit me and calms down with me. Amen".

Repeat the spell three times. After that, put the spoken pennies into your wallet and let them always lie there, but your income will increase.

Money conspiracy

For this conspiracy, you need any coin and one candle, which is bought in the church.

At night, put a candle on a coin, light a candle and say:

“Gai-nai, don’t pass by, come to me. It will be light and dry, quiet and comfortable. To your kids. Gai-nai, oh, how good it will be for me, I will start saving them, and multiplying them. Let them come to me, ask them."

Repeat three times, let the candle burn out, and after that always carry the coin with you and rub it with your hand every evening.

Conspiracy for financial well-being

With the help of this conspiracy, you can ensure your financial well-being for many years. A conspiracy is made once. For it, you will need three candles and three coins (of any denomination).

Late at night, put candles on coins, light them and say once:

“Like heaven without God, so is life without money. Let the money find me on its own, come to me and don't leave me. For a happy and rich life, but a long one. So loudly I pray to all the saints that others turn to help me. Amen".

Carry coins with you afterward, they are now a guarantee of your financial well-being. And do not lose them, otherwise you will be completely ruined and you will go around the world.

Ritual 3-stage

In order to increase your salary, you can apply this rite. It is done in stages:

1. You need to clean up your workspace. If possible, it's a good idea to fumigate your workspace with a mixture of marigold and mint herbs. If this cannot be done, then in some place inaccessible to others, you need to hide a bag with these herbs for a week.
2. CONSPIRACY. It must be read 3 times at home on a full moon:

“Flowers all bloom on the full moon, they obey the round moon, And I, the servant of God (name), ask the moon for clear light, complete consent. So that my salary is round, as you are now, And with your growth it increases, And as you decrease, so it will stabilize. The light is long, the month is full, my purse is golden"

1. Carrying out the morning ritual already at the workplace. You need to come to work before everyone else and, having opened the window, repeat the following words 3 times:

"I let in the light, I let out failures!"

After that, you can begin to perform your duties. The action of the ceremony can be felt literally immediately, and you will see real results in a couple of weeks.

If the work of a talented and diligent employee is not noticed and not encouraged, then magic can come to the rescue. In order to raise wages, there is a special conspiracy. To make it, you need any yellow coin. On it you need to read the following magic text:

“As in the blue sea, the mighty ocean, fish are found and not translated, As in the blue sky, the sky is huge, the stars shine, do not count them, As in a spacious field, a wide field of grass, do not interrupt everything, So it is with me, a servant of God ( name) there was always money. My words are strong, like the mighty stone Alatyr, I seal them with an iron sword in mother earth. Let my boss increase my salary, add money, see my talents. To always be like this. Amen!"

This plot must be read three times. After that, you need to put a coin on the right side of your workplace. She must remain there for 3 days. After this period, it must be spent on the purchase of some thing that can be presented to someone. For example, it can be a chocolate bar that you treat your child to. You can feel the result of this ritual in a month.

How to draw a pay rise

In order to carry out this ritual for a salary increase, you need a piece of paper and a new pencil. Before proceeding with the ritual, it is recommended to read a prayer to Spyridon Trimifuntsky. You need to draw your boss. Don't be embarrassed if you don't have a talent for drawing.

Try to make the drawing look good, and your leader on it should be smiling. The most important thing is that when drawing, you imagine exactly your boss. Then you need to draw that he is holding out money to you, and be sure to write the desired amount on the "money".

“Lord, as you turn your eyes on me, the servant of God (your name), so let my boss, the servant of God (name of the boss), turn his eyes on me and appreciate my merits. How are you. The King of Heaven is generous, so let the servant of God (the name of the boss) be generous. Amen"

Then the leaf with the pattern needs to be folded and carried with you to work. When you meet with your boss, you need to quietly touch this sheet with your hand and think about the amount of the desired salary. Soon your wish will come true.

To get paid on time

Nowadays, it often happens that for one reason or another, wages are delayed. In order to pay the salary on time, there is such a conspiracy:

“I ask Jesus Christ and the grieving Mother of God

Take my servant (name) from me and give it to my hands.

Key, lock, tongue. Amen. Amen. Amen"

It is pronounced standing opposite the place of your work, while you need to clasp the little fingers of your hands. Do not hesitate, very soon you will receive your earned money.

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how to get your husband to pay

The family budget is one of the pillars on which a marriage rests. If one spouse brings everything into the house, and the other spends everything on himself and his addictions, any family will begin to burst at the seams. Having broken your head over how to force your husband to pay his salary, you have tried, it seems, all the ways, but nothing helps?

Try on the other side. If you constantly make scandals on pay day, and he simply does not bring it home or does not trust you with money, you need to change tactics.

Show your diligence

If your husband just won't give you money because he doesn't trust you, show him that you know how to manage your finances. Of any amount that still turns out to be in your hands, set aside a small percentage just in case. Find great deals and spend money when you are 100 percent sure that this purchase is worth it. The husband must see that you are not a shopaholic and are able to restrain your own desires.

If he still does not allow you to manage the family budget, load him with your tasks. Make lists and send for shopping, let him pay for the communal flat. And every time he did something wrong, show how upset you are. In the end, he will get tired of doing everything wrong all the time and he will put the money at your disposal.

Time is money

The more tasks you give him, the less time he has for himself. Lament over this and say that you would be glad not to disturb him over trifles, but you don’t have such an opportunity. Express your willingness to take on the solution of some problems, but you will need money for this. But he will have free time, which he can spend with friends or for his favorite pastime.

Husband doesn't need to know how much you get

No matter how much you earn, always complain about how little money you have, that you constantly do not have enough for something. And put hidden amounts in the bank, let your family have a buffer that can help you out at any moment. At the same time, you should not be impudent, taking everything from your husband to the last - he should always have money for personal expenses so that he does not feel humiliated when he goes to ask you.

The fight against addiction

If the husband is a gamer, alcoholic or drug addict, you will not expect big profits from him. Even if you manage to agree with him to go to the accounting department and withdraw money, then for a month he will constantly pull money out of you for an addiction, as a result, you will only be exhausted, and the family budget will still burst at the seams. Therefore, first of all, it is necessary to eliminate the cause of these unreasonable expenses. If a man does not want to fight the disease, it would be more correct to leave him - peace is worth a lot. It is better to live economically than with constant scandals and upset relationships.

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How to get your husband to pay

It is worth understanding the mechanisms of influence on the male psyche and options for forcing an adult male to complete and unconditional financial surrender.

Question one: should the husband pay the salary

The word “should” is generally very slippery and, in most situations, dubious. An adult woman must understand that no one, in principle, owes anything to anyone. People should strive to become happy and are free to make at least minimal efforts so that relatives and friends next to them are also happy. Sane and mentally healthy people are simply obliged to comply with the Letter of the Law, otherwise they will be punished. In all other respects, each person is free.

At the same time, a man, entering into marriage, understands that now he is expected to provide solid material support. For this reason, a married man is called the breadwinner of the family. This tradition is typical for nations that gravitate more towards the traditional family model. In European countries, for example, the wife may well be the “breadwinner”. It doesn't bother anyone at all.

Women's right to work

So a man doesn't "should" pay his salary. To feed and fully provide for all the needs of his family is his conscious choice. Wives should not forget that this is no longer the Middle Ages and not even the 20th century. A woman has won her right to work and may well use it.

Ideally, both spouses should bring money to the family - here they certainly should - bring money. So material wealth is distributed more evenly, and the responsibility lies with both parents, and their rights are truly the same. So it's time for the ladies to remember their self-esteem and stop being tormented by questions about how to gut the pockets of the faithful.

Question two: what to do if the husband does not pay his salary

While a boy and a girl run to each other on dates, they don’t even have the thought to deal with material issues. But this is the very stumbling block on which thousands of marriages are broken every year! Before marriage, young people should discuss all the nuances of housekeeping and family budget planning. Shyness and modesty are not appropriate here.

Understand "on the shore", even before marriage, in such matters:

• who will vacuum the carpets and take out the trash, and who will wash the windows and bake pies on Sundays;
• who will take the children to school in the morning, and who will go to the drawing circle in the afternoon;
• children will stay with the nanny or grandparents while the spouses enjoy the theatrical premiere;
• how often relatives will appear on the breed of the family hearth;
• and most importantly, how the family budget will be distributed.

All these issues must be resolved at all costs, otherwise the life of the spouses will turn into a series of successive problems and scandals. If both spouses work and bring money into the house, they need to decide who and what share of what they earn will contribute to the family “basket”.

Calculate all the expenses for the family and estimate the size of the budget, which should be provided at all costs. All other earned spouses have every right to dispose of at their discretion. They can spend free money on new skis for their daughter or buy themselves some kind of new thing.

If the wife does not work

If the wife does not work and takes care of the household, she should dedicate her husband to all her expenses. Just write a list of everything you need to buy and pay for this month. Discuss expenses with your husband. An understanding man will feed his family. Otherwise, you should discuss with your spouse your vision of family life and, in particular, financial issues.

And the last piece of advice: always choose as your husband a man whose family has traditions that are revered in the family of your parents.

So it will be easier for you to reach mutual understanding with your loved one. If your father-in-law fully provides for the family, the spouse will do exactly the same. This is the power of education.

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How can I get my husband to pay my salary? Should a husband give money to his wife?

Creating a family involves a common residence, common children, common problems and a common wallet. Unfortunately, men often forget about the latter and give money to their soulmate only if the woman asks.

How to make your husband work?

A working man who fully supports his family is an infrequent occurrence at the present time. It depends on many factors. The upbringing of real masculine qualities in the family from childhood, the example of parents, as well as the influence of the spouse in the process of family life - everything plays a role. But any person can be encouraged to find a good job, the main thing is to do it correctly and unobtrusively. After all, this is your beloved husband.

• In order to give a man an active attitude to a conscientious, interesting and highly paid job, it is necessary from the first days of family life to encourage your husband in every possible way and help him in all difficult moments. You never need to grumble, grumble and reproach your husband for insolvency, frivolity. In no case should you cite as an example the husbands of your girlfriends, supposedly more successful and successful.
• If your husband is not working yet, for example, is in a free search after graduation, you need to help him find a job. A job worthy, promising, in the specialty. Even if the salary when applying for a job is initially offered low, but you think that there is a prospect for further career growth in this job, you need to persuade your husband to agree to the proposed conditions.
• It is necessary to ask the husband about his work, helping, if necessary, with advice. You also need to constantly remind in plain text or veiled (depending on the circumstances) about the merits of the husband, his value in this work. But do not bother with unnecessary talk, otherwise the husband will close in on himself.
• You should always be happy with the money earned by your husband. Even if it is still small money. Regarding the first salary, it is advisable to arrange a small family holiday. Until the husband fully gets on his feet, earns himself credibility and a promotion, you do not need to demand gifts for yourself and insist on buying too expensive things. We have to wait a little. With the correct formulation of the question and the correct behavior of the husband and wife, career growth and wage increases will not take long. Then there will be gifts and purchases. Only soft perseverance, advice, help and great love can achieve your goals. And soon the husband will work with pleasure, enthusiasm, quickly move up the career ladder and earn decent money.

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Otherwise, you will get his defensive reaction in the form of anger at the whole world. It is almost impossible to achieve instant awareness of the problem from a man. It is necessary to work methodically to create confidence in your husband that he is needed, that his relatives will be happy if he increases the family budget even by $ 50. It really works! In Conclusion So, how do you get your husband to work? Convince him!

How to make your husband work? Recently, you are increasingly thinking about the fact that it is time for your husband to change jobs. It's even worse if it doesn't work at all. The situation at home has escalated to the limit. First, clearly define the reasons for the importance of the new job, discuss them with your husband, convince him that you are right. Next, write down on a piece of paper all the qualities that will help your spouse find a job: “My husband is organized, disciplined, reliable, knows how to do this and that”

What if the husband does not earn enough?

Sometimes it is necessary to stimulate the desire of a man to earn more. Practical advice will help.

1. First you need to discuss with your spouse the need to earn more on practical examples. Tell us about the need to purchase certain things for the home, how important it is to eat right and buy high-quality and varied products, share your dreams of a joint vacation, and so on. In a day, seriously ask your spouse when you go to choose new household appliances, so you get him out of a state of relaxation, stimulate your man.
2. Give your husband confidence. Praise for the most insignificant victories and promotions, pay attention to his merits, let him strive to develop the best qualities in himself. Believe in his strength, say that such a man deserves more, a better position, a better salary.
3. If you notice the possibility of a promotion for your husband at work, try to gently prompt his idea. You should not lay out a plan of action on the forehead and lament about how he does not notice obvious solutions. Smoothly guide your husband, ask about his successes, be interested in his capabilities, carefully prompt and advise.
4. Let the man be the head of the family. Accept his authority, the husband should make the final decision on all issues. Do not take on the burden of men's duties. Trust your husband, as soon as you are sure that a man can fully provide for his family with everything necessary, he will do it. Often women, without noticing it, undertake to solve all family problems, after which the man voluntarily gives command into her hands and relaxes.
5. If the family does not have enough finances, usually a woman starts to fuss, thinks about how best to save money, looks for possible side jobs for herself and her husband. In such a situation, it is necessary to give a man the opportunity to try to manage finances on his own, to feel a real lack of money, this will also bring him out of a relaxed state and force him to act.
6. Pay attention to yourself. A woman who sees only negativity around, prone to a depressive mood, touchy and indecisive, will not be able to inspire a man, stimulate him for new achievements and development. You yourself must exude confidence and a positive attitude. Charge your spouse with your positive energy.

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How to make your husband earn?

Probably, primitive women also faced the fact that some men run after mammoths, while others sit in the shade. Some bring home juicy slices of meat, while others, having got out of hiding, are content with bones and cartilage. How to make your husband start earning money?

1. Get rid of the idea that a man can be forced to earn. None of the adults perceive violence and pressure favorably. This is especially true for men. Sometimes representatives of the strong half of humanity, out of a sense of protest against the pressure of their wife, do not go to interviews organized by her. So they keep their masculine pride.
2. Stop being an ascetic. From the deprivation of sensual pleasures, women become callous, turn into grumblings. And grouchy persons rarely become those beautiful ladies for whom men are ready for feats. Good food, beautiful clothes should become a habit for you. If you deny yourself everything, you demonstrate to him a willingness to endure his low earnings. And that ruins your character.
3. Try not to "nag" the unlucky spouse. This point is related to the previous one. There is no point in endlessly expressing displeasure to her husband from his low earnings. It doesn't motivate, it demotivates. The more you grumble, the longer he will sit without a normal income.
4. Become his muse. What is the essence and meaning of these air creatures? They believe in their man, they consider him smart and talented. They know how to rely on it, even if they themselves have untouchable cash reserves.

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Don't scold, but inspire. Psychologists who study human behavior have proven that positive motivation works better than negative motivation. That is, if he is happy to try to please you, he will move mountains. It is a positive attitude towards achievement. And if he is forced to come up with something in a situation of psychological terror, just to avoid conflicts, it will be difficult for him to rise up and make your family successful.

How to increase salary?

What could be more desirable for an employee than an increase in wages by, say, twenty percent? Just doubling it. But doesn’t it often happen like this: you work, work, make efforts to fulfill your professional duties, and the authorities are in no hurry to appreciate your selfless work. How to be in that case? Looking for better job offers or taking part-time jobs elsewhere?

• Rule one: Strive to express your desires directly. No one will ever know about your desire to increase your salary until you directly ask for it. Or do you think that the employer is a special person who can read your thoughts? In this case, you may need to step over false pride, embarrassment, or fear of rejection. You should not worry about how others will look at you if you think that you deserve to be paid in full - just demand it by finding the appropriate motivation.
• Know how to sell yourself. It is not enough to realize your own high value in the labor market, you need to learn how to present yourself accordingly. If you think that you don’t have the ability to “sell”, think about this: if you are married or if you have ever had to fly on wings on a first date, then you have already learned how to present yourself in this world in the best light.
• Create an employer's idea of ​​yourself as an indispensable person and a salary increase will not keep you waiting. How to let the employer know that you are indispensable? Show reasonable initiative, take on complex tasks, including those that are beyond your direct responsibilities. Become a generalist. This is a direct path to promotion, and from here to a salary increase is within easy reach.
• Develop the ability to increase your value to the cause. Try the following experiment. Come to the boss and ask him just one question: “Ivan Ivanovich, what should I do so that you double my salary?” Believe me, the person you ask about this, especially if he is the owner of his own business, is racking his brains day and night over the same question. And he certainly knows the answer for sure: show me a way to increase the efficiency of the business and there will be no increase in remuneration.
• Think of and show your boss real ways to reduce production costs and double your sales, and your salary may triple immediately. Only selling brings money, everything else costs money. Do not forget that in modern economic conditions, sometimes the only way to find additional funds to increase wages for employees is to increase the level of sales of goods and services.
• And most importantly - believe yourself that you deserve more. Your success is in your hands!

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How can I get my husband to pay my salary?

1. It is better to teach a husband to give his salary, or at least part of it, right away, while he is not yet used to it and has not accepted a separate budget for granted. A man must understand that the creation of a family imposes certain obligations on him, including financial ones. Do not delay the matter indefinitely, for fear of injuring the tender soul of your beloved with your mercenary interests. Then it is much more difficult to instill in him the awareness that money should be given to his wife. Indeed, why hand over your hard-earned money to your wife, if before we did fine without these victims, he would logically decide.
2. When you get married or start living together, immediately raise the delicate issue, on whose money are you, in fact, going to live? If you are a fan of equal relations, discuss who and how much money will contribute to the common pot. Your husband is not eager to give you all his salary, agree to pay current expenses (utilities, food, household appliances) in a lump sum, in proportion to the income of each of you.
3. By the way, these current expenses can be increased by saying that the amount that your betrothed gives out is not enough to cover them. Need more. If the husband begins to balk and doubt the veracity of your words, ask him to go to the market and buy everything himself. Men, as a rule, do not know how to choose goods and bargain, and wandering around the trading floor in search of what is cheaper annoys them and makes them sad (either because of the awareness of their own insolvency, or because of the peculiarities of male temperament). Or conduct an experiment: collect all the checks and demonstrate how much you spend on groceries. You can always find a more expensive product than you usually buy.
4. Another very good option is to agree on a general purchase, for which, of course, you will need to save money. You can offer a car. For most men, this is a favorite toy, and, most likely, they will easily fall for such a trick. You just have to allocate a place where you will put the total money. Over time, the husband will get used to this state of affairs, and you will not have to beg him for another handout.

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To date, psychologists are often faced with the appeal of women who are forced to save money, provide for themselves and their child on their own, or beg for financial support from their spouse, because he does not want to actively participate in financing his family. Often women, finding themselves in such a situation, begin to blame themselves or suspect their husband of infidelity or various addictions that require material costs. In this case, the spouse can use the services of a psychologist or search for information on the Internet on the topic: “What if the husband does not give money?”. In order not to aggravate the situation and not provoke a breakup, it is very important to understand all aspects of this topic, since each man may have his own motives and reasons for such behavior.

Reasons for lack of finance

Sometimes a woman believes that her husband simply spares money for the maintenance of his family, but in fact he may have difficulties with the earning process. Psychologists say: this aspect is very important, since a man can limit his family financially only because he chooses the most important and personally necessary areas for financing. In this case, it should be recognized that there is a serious psychological problem, which consists in incorrect attitudes. They block the subconscious and do not allow to go beyond the usual earnings.

When realizing the presence of such difficulties, you can visit a psychologist who will identify specific problems and the causes of their occurrence. After painstaking work and a thorough analysis of all aspects of the lack of money in the family, most likely, such problems as “the husband does not want to give money” or “how to make the spouse support the family” will disappear on their own. A man, leaving his comfort zone, will certainly feel like a different person and realize the level of responsibility for the material well-being of his household.

family and money

Modern psychologists emphasize that men and women have different attitudes towards material wealth. Such differences are significant, so it is important to find out and understand them. In modern society, there is an opinion that a man should be realized primarily in a career and earn such an amount of money that could fully satisfy the needs of the family. If he is not able to provide for his loved ones, he may feel like a failure and inferior.

For women, it is much more important not to have money, but to be able to spend it on things and items that are necessary for the family. They, as the guardians of the family hearth, prefer to take care of the comfort and practicality of their housing and life, rather than the availability of funds in their savings account. Therefore, when a man does not allow the available finances to be freely spent on stupid and superfluous, in his opinion, objects and things, the spouse may suspect that the husband is giving money to his ex-wife (if any) or to his mistress, whom he brought for his own pleasure.

Why a man does not have enough money

Quite often, couples face the problem of a lack of wages, which leads to the fact that the husband does not give money to the family. Psychologists identify 3 main reasons:

• The man does not work. Perhaps he lost his position against his will, for example, the reason was a reduction, dismissal, illness or a change of residence. In this case, the woman should help her husband feel like a qualified and needed specialist again, while not demanding money from him or looking for a new, higher-paid job. These temporary difficulties, most likely, will not affect the relationship of the spouses and their financial situation. Also, a man may not work because he is a gigolo, has become addicted to something, or simply does not want to work every day. In this case, psychologists recommend not to engage in self-treatment of a man’s state of mind and turn to professionals.
• A man can work, but not earn. The reasons for this phenomenon are as follows: insufficient level of education or little work experience, unwillingness to move up the career ladder or his irresponsible, frivolous attitude to the work process. Also, quite often, this aspect is strongly influenced by a man's hobby or hobby, which requires regular financial investments, or simply his inability to take care of the well-being of his family. In this case, it is possible to correct the situation only with a mutual decision to save the relationship.
• A man can work hard and constantly, but at the same time not give money to the family budget. This happens if he is pathologically greedy, he is not interested in the needs and needs of the household, he has got a new woman and children, or he has a serious gambling addiction. In this case, psychologists do not recommend independently determining how to influence and deal with such a man. If the husband does not give money to his wife, but spends it for his own pleasure, perhaps the situation will not improve.

What if the husband is greedy?

Psychologists say that a woman is able to consider a greedy and overly economical man even at the first stages of acquaintance and development of relationships. If a partner does not give gifts and does not show signs of attention to his potential bride, most likely, he does not consider it necessary to spend money on this. In the future, such a man will consider that his woman is satisfied with such a life and will not change his habits. It is likely that the greedy spouse in the future will not consider it necessary to provide not only a woman, but also children. If the husband does not give money for the child, this is a serious reason to sort things out with him and it is possible to visit a psychologist's consultation.

Perhaps the man does not fully understand the need to spend a significant amount of money and therefore does not give cash to his wife. Favorably in this case, a sincere conversation will work, in which the girl can talk about the necessary expenses and agree with him on the subsequent provision of a check or report on the money spent. Although, this fact may indicate distrust between the spouses.

Psychological types of male greed

Experts define the following types of male greed:

• pathological manifestation. Such greed is expressed in the fact that a man does not want to overspend money, because he constantly saves them. This happens most often with guys who were deprived of parental attention in childhood.
• Innate aspects that can be passed down through generations.
• Showing greed towards everyone but yourself. A man only cares about his own well-being and does not pay attention to the needs of others.
• Electoral greed. This can manifest itself in the fact that a man tightly controls and limits his family in finances, but contains a mistress who is provided for him in the best possible way.

If the husband does not give money to the family, in a short time he will not be able to correct or convince him otherwise. Therefore, you will have to make an effort and show patience.

Strategy

Husband does not give money, what should I do? This question worries many women who, for various reasons, cannot provide for themselves on their own. In such a family, it is very important to have a sincere conversation, to find out the reasons and motives for which a man limits his wife in finances. If he thinks that his girlfriend is spending cash inappropriately, you can offer him to provide a report on purchases. It is also necessary to ask if he intends to make an expensive and important purchase for the family, for which he can save money. If the husband knows all the needs of his relatives, but does not seek to satisfy them, then he is simply a greedy person. In this case, the woman will have to save or independently earn the necessary money for her needs.

How to ask your husband for money

Often girls turn to psychologists and say: “My husband doesn’t give money, I’m on maternity leave, what should I do?”. For such a case, there are several tricks that will help girls easily achieve the desired result:

• It is important to carefully calculate in advance the amount of money that you will need to ask your husband.
• You should approach a man only when he is in a good mood and well-being.
• You should not overly demand a large amount of finance, as a man may suspect his wife of cheating.
• When a husband exposes his wife in squandering, it is important not to react with aggression or reproaches, but simply explain why there was not enough money.
• It is very important to remind the husband of the importance and necessity of certain purchases at a certain stage of life.

How can I get my husband to give money?

If conversations do not help to rectify the situation and the husband does not give money as before, more stringent and drastic measures can be applied. They will help a man understand how difficult it is for his other half without financial support. A wife may limit her husband's food, referring to the lack of money. Also, a fairly effective method is to send your spouse shopping so that he can see the cost of products and household items. Similarly, you can use receipts for payment of utilities and child care facilities. In this case, the man will understand that his wife is not deceiving him and really needs financial assistance.

Men's opinion

Almost always, men justify their greed by the behavior or character of their wife, who tells everyone that her husband does not give her money. Some spouses unreasonably consider their girlfriends to be spenders or shopaholics. Also, many husbands do not delve into the household needs of the family and think that they are not very important for the usefulness of the family. It happens that a man, out of jealousy, does not want his partner to develop and spend money on self-care. It is often easier for husbands to blame their spouses for not being understood and appreciated than to honestly admit their psychological problems.

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Why spouses argue about money and 5 ways to stop it. Councils of the family psychologist. - MoneyPapa

The financial issue is so often a stumbling block for many families. We are embarrassed / afraid / avoid discussing the financial side of the family with our spouse, thereby driving each other into a dead end. Whose money is in the family? Who makes the decisions? Whose purchases and spending are more important? How much to spend on certain things?

Well-known family psychologist Elizaveta Filonenko answers these and many other questions.

Money is a vital resource. Managing money gives people confidence in a prosperous future. The loss of such an opportunity is psychologically perceived as a threat not only to social, but also to physical well-being. In this case, it is not so important whether you are threatened with actual death from starvation or deprivation of housing, since the historical setting “money = survival” works unconsciously.

There are several reasons for the difficulties that prevent spouses from solving financial issues within the family and, accordingly, lead to conflicts.

Different values ​​of spouses

Money is a tool for maintaining and maintaining one's values. We exchange money for what we consider important for ourselves: pleasures, appearance, things, status, obligations to loved ones.

It is far from always the case that spouses have exactly the same values ​​in a family, and the hierarchy of these values, rather an exact match, is a rare case. If the values ​​are different, then a situation arises when a single monetary resource needs to be spent on servicing the various values ​​of the spouses. Talking about money is often a conflict of interest:

For example, expensive clothes or savings "for a rainy day?" , Vacation or car? Etc.

Also Read: Financial Mistakes Leading to Divorce! List of the Most Common Causes of Family Quarrels and Divorces

Of course, the whole point is that their “Wishlist” is seen as reasonable and necessary. And if not necessary, then forgivable. And other people's desires ... well, how can you want this at all ?? Or is it so insignificant that it can be tolerated.

Exercise "My values"

It is advisable to do this psychological practice with a partner:

Take two sheets of paper and write a list of your values. - number the values ​​according to their importance in your life - next to each value, write two or three ways in which you realize or can feel the presence of this value in your life.

1. Value: close people. How I implement it: I spend time with my family, I help my parents.
2. Value: health. How I implement it: I go for checkups, go in for sports, eat right.
3. Value: career. How I implement it: I work with full dedication, study additionally, explore opportunities for promotion

Compare your list with your husband's (wife's) list.

It is good if the value systems of the spouses coincide or are very close. Different ideas about how to live not only in money matters are a frequent basis for family conflicts. The more similar the ideas of the spouses about how life should be arranged, the less problems there will be. Also important are the spouses' ideas about who manages the family's money. So, if both spouses believe that the husband controls the money in the family, there is no ground for contention.

Different vectors of spouses' goals

Marriage is a union of two people, only partly connected with each other by actual and psychological obligations, in any marriage, even with very merged relationships, there remains a territory free from a partner.

People who live together have:

Individual Goals

Spouses' individual targets often become the scene of hostilities, the most popular topics for clashes here:

Children from previous marriages - Parents - Toys, accessories, hobbies, a passion for which your partner does not share. These things, for all their apparent optionality in life, can draw on a significant financial resource.

Joint Goals

Traditional joint goals include, for example, the education of children or real estate.

Shared goals can also become a point of contention due to different orientations and values. So, for example, a shared goal of renovating a home can be heatedly debated due to differing perceptions of how much to spend on things like interiors (lifestyle values).

Money is a controversial area

One of the difficulties of talking about money is the fact that money is always a controversial area in a marriage.

Whose money? The one who earned? But the second often provided such an opportunity, caring for, for example, children in which both partners were interested.

Equal money in marriage? But often the one who earns the most claims to have more say in deciding where the money goes, and that's understandable.

There are no clear framework and rules in the division of the financial territory in the family.

When talking about money, it is important to take these subtleties into account, a good tactic is to ask your partner directly how he sees the finances in the family - common, partially common or separate.

Read: 10 Secrets to Raising Your Wife Financially (Men Only!)

Psychological fusion of spouses

The psychological fusion of partners in a marriage has a negative impact on people's ability to constructively negotiate money matters. A person in confluence, as it were, "appropriates" a spouse and believes that his thoughts and intentions should be identical to his own. The future begins to be seen as common, personal boundaries are shifting. In this case, there is no readiness to see reality and understand that you really have a DIFFERENT person in front of you.

At the same time, the changes of each spouse are not always symmetrical to the change of the partner. That is, one often still thinks in terms of "my" and "your" money, while the other already has completely "our" money.

Desire in itself is neither good nor bad. Problems arise when there is an expectation that your needs should be the focus of attention, but there is no willingness to see and meet the needs of another.

So a wife may want her husband to be indulgent about her spending on jewelry, but be intolerant of his spending at restaurants at friends meetings.

A woman may expect family money to go to her education (personal developmental needs), but resent if her husband gives a lot of money to his family (his need to follow his family values).

A man may demand from his wife an understanding attitude towards spending on his sports hobbies, but be intolerant of her desire to spend money on “nonsense” such as self-care or clothing.

Limited money resource

The basis of monetary conflicts - the multidirectionality of interests and needs is based on the main basis - the limited financial resource.

The monetary resource is always finite, no one has access to an unlimited cash flow.

Any amount of money has the idea of ​​a scarcity of funds, since the needs for which money is spent are growing all the time. Big money requires lifestyle changes, the more money, the higher the needs, the spending. Yesterday you didn’t have enough money for a decent suit, and today you didn’t have enough money for luxury real estate. Money has become many times more, psychological problems are essentially the same.

In rich families, the same struggle for a vital resource - money, can go on, as in poor ones, only at a different level. Small pearls can cause the same grief as thin soup.

Money as a symbol of relationships

Monetary policy in the family is always associated with relationships of love and power. Often people express their love using a monetary resource, and often people tend to judge the attitude towards them by the amount of money allocated.

For example, a wife may nervously calculate how much money her husband spent on gifts for a child from his first marriage and compare these amounts with spending on her.

Measuring love in terms of money is cynical only at first glance. In fact, it's quite natural. A person receives money, as a rule, for work, that is, for investing his physical or intellectual energy. So he exchanges his vitality and the time of his life for a "bio-survival resource" - money. And he gives this money (or does not want to give it) to his relatives. Behind the return of money (the equivalent of the invested forces) is the return of vital energy. So measuring relationships "in money" ultimately has a good reason. To whom will you give your life energy?

How to talk about money in the family

A significant part of people are sure that their partner should understand their needs and desires. And, of course, he understands, but he does not want to reckon with these desires. Such people are firmly convinced that speaking directly about their desires means losing face, and the lover himself must guess the movements of their souls, otherwise love is not real, they are not understood in the family. At the same time, they themselves did nothing to ensure that they were correctly understood, it is not the royal business to explain something. The confidence that loved ones should understand us without words, literally read our thoughts is one of the reasons for chronic discontent in the family, which accumulates and eventually becomes an insoluble problem.

Do not hide your dissatisfaction with financial decisions in your family. If it seems to you that your interests are pushed to the bottom of the list of priorities, it may be because you did not take the trouble to voice what you would like.

You should not move from silent expectations that your needs will be guessed to an aggressive declaration of your rights to family money. Find opportunities to have a polite conversation with your partner about what you need and prioritize.

Also read: How to talk to your spouse about money and not kill each other?

2. Avoid Aggressive Pressure

It is also useless, as well as to be silent about your needs, to loudly and constantly declare your rights to the family's finances and "take out the brain" of a partner. If you constantly scream about your unmet needs, then be sure that no one is going to satisfy them. This is the law of relationships - you can't get anything by force. Whether you want more love, sex, attention, or money, aggressive pressure on your partner will decrease your chances of getting what you want. All living things are protected, closed from aggression, and loud demands are aggression in relationships, even if your demands seem fair to you.

It makes sense to list your rights and wishes to a partner only if you are ready to be reckoned with. If you are categorically not ready to be considered, proceed to the next paragraph.

Read: 10 reasons why women should study finance.

3. Consider the general nature of the relationship

The relationship of the spouses always affects the financial balance in the family. A stronger partner, that is, one who is less afraid of losing another, is less emotionally dependent on him, is inclined (and not without reason) to dictate the conditions for living together, including financial ones. This is not due to malicious intent, not because of the despotism of the character, but simply as a result of existing relationships. It is easier for a partner who is less psychologically dependent to say: “I don’t like it, we’ll leave!”, “I don’t like it, I won’t keep you.” And the more dependent partner makes concessions.

If this is your case, you have to agree to conditions that are unacceptable to you because of the fear of losing your partner, then you need to solve this particular (and not financial) problem. The financial conflict of interest in this case is only an indicator of the problem, it is a good signal that something has gone wrong. And the problem is that you need a partner much more than he needs you.

4. Starting a conversation about family finances, have an idea about the family budget and the system of income and expenses.

In the once sensational film Intergirl, the hero reproaches his wife for spending too much. To which she, naming him the amount of his monthly income, indignantly asks: “Is this not enough?”. The heroine has little idea of ​​how the financial side of life works in a foreign country for her, and in her understanding of the situation, she proceeds from the only parameter available to her - the size of her husband's salary, that is, she thinks very limitedly.

Often the stumbling block and the cause of resentment in the family becomes an inaccurate, and sometimes a distorted understanding of the whole picture of the financial field and financial prospects. So a wife may be offended that her husband does not give her gifts, having only a vague idea of ​​\u200b\u200bfree money in the family.

5. Consider your partner's wishes as well as your own.

Ultimately, the ability to take the position of the OTHER is the key to success in family relationships, including in the matter of finances. And, on the contrary, the childish desire to see oneself in the center of the Universe and the requirement that the partner shares this opinion is a sure path to constant resentment, bitterness and conflict. If you are sincerely outraged by how your partner spends money on what interests him and are sure that he must necessarily share your interests and priorities, then you still have not got rid of the infantile delusion that the world was created for your comfort.

Harmony in financial matters is not a gift of fate, but the result of mutual work and respect for the needs of a partner.

Do not try to re-educate your partner by instilling in him the “right” attitude towards money. This is the path to problems. Your spouse is not your child.

You do not have to educate him and set him on the true path. To think so is a serious misunderstanding of the essence of marriage, as an equal partnership of two adults.

The original articles and their full versions are here:- Part 1: The money question- Part 2: How to talk about money in the family

Elizaveta Filonenko, family psychologist, specialist in parent-child relations Author of many books on the subject of "Raising Children". Elizaveta's website is here: http://mama-papa-help.ru.

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Women who find themselves in difficult situations begin to constantly suspect their spouse of cheating, as well as addictions, which can often require a large amount of costs. In this case, sometimes a simple appeal to a psychologist is enough. Or is it enough to find information on this topic. What is the best thing to do if the spouse stopped providing and giving money? So that this situation does not worsen and parting does not happen, it is important to carefully study all aspects of this topic. After all, the husband may have some of his own motives, which he is guided by. A child can also suffer from a lack of finances.

Some women believe that a man simply spares money to support his family, however, in reality, he can really have real difficulties in earning money. Psychologists are convinced that this aspect is quite important, since a man actually sometimes decides to limit his own family in terms of money for various reasons. In this case, you can suspect that he has some serious psychological problems. This is what psychotherapists do. They can unlock consciousness and allow a man to remove certain attitudes, get rid of fears.

If there really are difficulties, it is enough to turn to a psychotherapist who will finally be able to find certain problems and even eliminate the causes at the very root. When painstaking work is done, as well as an analysis of all possible aspects with a lack of money in the family itself, it is quite possible that the problems will simply evaporate. A man will simply come out of his own comfort zone and feel completely different, he will be able to realize how big a responsibility is before him. A real businessman should be able to deal with stress. A woman should only believe in him.

Most modern psychoanalysts emphasize that women, as well as men, have completely different attitudes towards the distribution of material wealth and money itself in particular. These differences are considered significant, for this reason it is so important to understand them and find out everything thoroughly. Such differences can be considered quite significant. The modern world literally screams that it is a man who is able to realize himself to the greatest extent in his own career. But some men feel like real losers. They don't feel happy. A loved one can suffer from this and even hate himself, make scandals. You need to be able to stop conflicts in time, take a vacation to relax. Even your favorite job can become a real problem. And childhood experiences become unworthy of attention.

For the woman herself, it is important not just whether there is money, but whether it can be spent on items that are necessary for the family, as well as things. They are considered the real keepers of the hearth, they prefer to mainly take care of the practicality, as well as the comfort of their own home.

In some cases, couples face various problems of lack of money, which can lead to the fact that the husband stops giving money. Most psychologists agree that there are several main reasons:

1. The man simply stopped working. It is possible that he was fired, for example, there was a serious layoff, a change of residence, or a serious illness. In this case, it is the woman who must certainly help her husband feel needed enough, as well as a qualified specialist, while not constantly asking him to find a well-paid job, since the man is most likely in real depression. Some men do not work simply for one simple reason - they are real gigolos or suffer from various addictions. In this case, you should not look for reasons in yourself, contact a qualified specialist who can look at the situation from the outside.
2. Some men do not earn, but rather just work. The reasons can be identified as follows: insufficient level of education or not so much work experience. In some cases, men spend a lot of money on hobbies and hobbies that may require large financial investments.
3. Sometimes men work quite hard and constantly, but they prefer not to invest in the budget at all. This situation can be explained by banal greed, he is simply not interested in not only the needs, but also the needs of family members.

Often, women, as well as girls, turn to psychologists and say that the husband simply does not give them money, and the girl herself is on maternity leave. What to do? There are a small number of tricks that will achieve the result:

It is very important to take care to carefully calculate the required amount of funds that you just need to ask your spouse.

1. You should approach your spouse only if he is in a good mood.
2. If your husband accuses you of wasting money, in no case do not react to this.
3. You should not immediately ask for a large amount of money, as a man may think that you are deceiving him.
4. Constantly remind your spouse that it is important to purchase certain purchases.

Basically, most men can justify their own greed by saying that they just have such behavior or character, and the wife is prudent and is constantly spent only on shopping. Such men are simply not able to delve into the household needs of the family, they believe that they are not so important. In some cases, out of jealousy, a man does not want the girl to somehow develop and spend money on self-care. It is much easier for them to blame their spouse for everything than to admit to themselves some psychological problems. Sometimes living with a person and loving him is so difficult. But if you want to save the marriage, you have to negotiate. Remember, in no case should you humiliate yourself in front of a man. Sometimes because of this, women do not even want to return home. And I want to spend all my earnings on junk food, eating problems.

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The distribution of the family budget ... Or how to make the husband give his entire salary ...

Excuse me, but why do you need it? This salary? For some reason, since Soviet times, in many families it has been considered the norm for a man to give all his money to his wife. And it is not perceived normally that a man does not give his wife the entire salary ... To each his own, but I don’t need this money. Money is power, and power is responsibility! And who in the family has the power and responsibility? The one who is the man in the family. It is convenient and pleasant for me that all the money that my man earns remains with him. He manages the money, and he solves all my problems.

At the same time, everything suits everyone: he feels like a man, and with him I am a weak, defenseless woman.

Aerobatics is not money as such, but caring for a woman, solving all her problems and satisfying her needs. This is when a man has money, and he spends all of them (well, or most of them) on a woman, in a family.

When a woman takes all his money from a man, it is very humiliating for him. And then he should ask them back for his needs? This is already unnatural. It’s one thing when he gives a woman something for something, and another thing when a woman rakes everything clean out of a man’s pockets, and then also whines that he doesn’t give her gifts ... A man experiences tremendous pleasure from what he gives to a woman every time money (and how many times he gives, so many times he rejoices). Therefore, please do not deprive your man of this pleasure.

In addition, a man (an adequate, pronounced male) earns money, and he needs to feel it (either in his pocket or on his bank account), he works for them and the tangibility of money stimulates him to earn more. Money is energy, it is power. And let her stay with the man!

At the same time, many men are economical and greedy by nature, and here the woman’s task is to make sure that the money goes to the destination she needs. How to do it?

First, ask. Politely and internally tuned in to the fact that you will receive them. How else? How can you possibly refuse? If you do not know how (have forgotten how to) ask, learn this from children. It is necessary to ask with childish spontaneity. It is difficult for a child to refuse, because he will be very disappointed and upset. If a man loves you, he will not refuse. And if you do not like - why do you need such a man?

Another thing is when he does not have this money ... In this case, it is the woman's task to stimulate him, to earn them.

Secondly, stop feeling sorry for him. Pity kills the man in him. Then he himself will be glad that he got off the sofa and brought mammoths. And don't rely on arguments like:

No job…

I don't get paid enough...

I'm tired…

We can't afford it...

You want too much…

Yes, you deserve a lot. If you believe in it, then he will believe it.

In reality, any man can ALWAYS earn at least three times what he now has, and if he stops being afraid, drifting and being lazy (by the way, as a rule, any laziness is based on the fear of failure and failure).

That is, you need to make it clear to your man what you expect from him and how much you see potential in him. Often, a woman's faith works wonders, even if a man does not believe in himself. At the same time, you can’t cut and you can’t demand. Only ask.

Yes, you can turn on the competition and make it clear that if HE does not buy, then SOMEONE ELSE will buy. With this point, be careful not to everyone can be applied, and not in all situations it rolls. Here you need to be very confident in yourself and not at all be afraid to let go of a person, since he can send you)

Third, learn to appreciate what you have. What he has given you is giving and will continue to give. Gratitude is never enough, it’s more dangerous to underestimate here)

Fourth, learn to value yourself, this should have been put as the first point))

And really understand what you are worth. How much do you cost so much and get)

PS: Remember! If a man does not spend his money on you, he will definitely spend it on himself (in the form of a new toy, another woman, etc.)!

Good luck with your generous men!